Everything you want
to know about hypnotherapy

Frequently Asked Questions


Hypnosis is one of the most misunderstood therapeutic tools available. Here are honest, clear answers to the questions people ask most.

The most common concerns - addressed

  • Will I lose control or be made to do things?

  • Can everyone be hypnotized?

  • How many sessions will I need?

  • Is it the same as stage hypnosis?

  • Does it really work for anxiety and anger?

  • Are online sessions as effective as in-person?


Quick Answers

What hypnosis actually is

About Hypnosis


  • Hypnosis is a normal and natural state of focused awareness. You've likely experienced it hundreds of times — listening to great music, reading a good book, watching a movie, or any time you've lost track of time. In hypnotherapy, this natural state is used intentionally to help you access the subconscious mind and create meaningful, lasting change.

  • Hypnosis is not sleep, nor is it simply relaxation. It is a state of focused awareness where you are highly receptive to positive suggestion. You will be conscious and alert the whole time. We often use relaxation as a way to help you get comfortable and focus - but there will be many moments where you feel energized, engaged, or filled with insight.

  • Traditional talk therapy works primarily with the conscious mind. Hypnotherapy goes deeper, working with the subconscious mind where your memories, emotions, beliefs, and habitual patterns are stored. This is why hypnotherapy can often produce results much faster and more powerfully than talk therapy alone. It's not a replacement for therapy - it's a different and often more direct path to change.

  • Hypnosis is a state of mind - not a specific feeling. Some people feel light, like they're floating. Some feel grounded and deeply calm. Others feel nothing unusual at all, or just a light sense of focused concentration. They're all correct experiences - it is different for every person. What's consistent is that you remain aware, in control, and able to remember everything afterward.

  • Yes - and this is one of the most important things to understand. Because hypnotherapy works differently from other approaches, it can succeed where conscious-level methods have not. Habits, fears, and emotional patterns that resist willpower and talk therapy often respond quickly when addressed at the subconscious level.

  • Yes. Hypnotherapy has a substantial body of clinical research supporting its effectiveness for anxiety, phobias, pain management, habit change, PTSD, and more. The American Psychological Association (APA) recognizes hypnosis as a legitimate therapeutic technique. David's training through 5-PATH® IAHP reflects evidence-based best practices in the field.

What to expect

Sessions & Process


  • It depends on the issue and the individual. Many clients experience meaningful, lasting results in 4–6 sessions. Some issues - particularly specific phobias or habits - can shift more quickly. Others, such as deep emotional trauma or long-standing patterns, may benefit from a longer process. David will give you a realistic expectation during your free consultation.

  • Your first session begins with a thorough conversation. David will ask about your goals, the issue you want to address, your history, and what you've already tried. He'll explain exactly how the hypnotherapy process works and answer any questions you have. The first session typically includes an initial hypnosis experience as well.

  • Yes. Research and David's clinical experience confirm that hypnotherapy via secure video is equally effective as in-person sessions. Hypnosis works through communication and focused awareness - both of which translate completely to an online environment. David is certified to conduct online hypnosis sessions through 5-PATH® IAHP.

  • Hypnotherapy can help with a wide range of issues including stress and anxiety, anger management, emotional healing and trauma, fears and phobias, confidence and self-esteem, unwanted habits and compulsions, insomnia, chronic pain, motivation, and spiritual growth. The free consultation is the best way to find out if your specific issue is a good fit.

  • No special preparation is required. It helps to come with an open mind and a genuine desire to make changes. Avoid alcohol before sessions. Wear comfortable clothing. If attending online, choose a quiet, private space where you won't be interrupted. That's all you need.

  • Yes - unless hypnosis is being used for specific medical purposes such as surgery, you will be conscious and remember everything throughout the session. This is intentional. The insights and changes you experience during hypnotherapy are most powerful when you can recall and integrate them into your daily life.

Addressing your hesitations

Common Concerns


  • No. Your hypnotherapist has no control over you. Hypnosis is a consensual state - you cannot be hypnotized against your will, and you will not do anything that conflicts with your values. What you see in stage hypnosis shows is entertainment. Hypnotherapy is entirely different. David works with you as a guide and coach, always in service of your goals.

  • Yes - anyone who is able and willing to follow instructions can experience hypnosis. You cannot be hypnotized against your will because it requires your participation and consent. Hypnotherapy works best when you genuinely want to make changes in your life. The more open and willing you are, the more effective the process will be.

  • Yes. Hypnotherapy is a safe, natural, and non-invasive process. There are no drugs, no side effects, and no risk of harm. You remain in full control at all times. David combines clinical mental health training with advanced hypnotherapy certification - ensuring every session is conducted with professional care and ethical standards.

  • The vast majority of people can be hypnotized and benefit from hypnotherapy. If you find it difficult to relax or focus at first, that's completely normal - David is skilled at helping clients find their way into hypnosis at their own pace. The free consultation is a good opportunity to explore whether the process feels right for you before committing to sessions.

  • Absolutely. Everything you share — in the consultation, in sessions, and in any communications - is held in strict confidence. David adheres to professional ethical standards and your privacy is always protected.

  • Stage hypnosis is entertainment - it uses carefully selected volunteers who want to participate in a fun performance. What you see on stage or TV is not representative of clinical hypnotherapy in any way. Hypnotherapy is a professional, evidence-based clinical process conducted in a private, confidential setting with your healing as the only goal.

The truth about hypnosis

Myths vs. Reality


Hypnosis is a normal, natural state of mind

You've already experienced it - any time you lost track of time, got absorbed in a book, or zoned out while driving a familiar route. Hypnotherapy intentionally uses this natural state for healing.

Hypnosis works below conscious thinking

This is what makes it so powerful. You become aware of things you have not been aware of before - leading to insight, breakthroughs, and changes that conscious willpower alone cannot produce.

You are always in control

Your hypnotherapist serves as a guide. You cannot be made to do anything against your values. Hypnosis is consensual - it requires your willingness and participation at all times.

Hypnosis can work even when everything else has failed

Because it works at the subconscious level, hypnotherapy can reach the root of issues that resist conscious-level approaches like willpower, positive thinking, and traditional talk therapy.

You remain conscious and alert throughout

Hypnosis is not sleep. You will be aware, responsive, and able to remember your session. This is intentional - the insights you gain are part of the healing process.

The brain can change rapidly with hypnosis

Just as a phobia can be learned in an instant, the brain can also learn new responses very quickly. Neuroplasticity means lasting change doesn't require months or years - it can happen in sessions.

The best answers come
from a real conversation

Still Have Questions?


No FAQ can replace a personal conversation. David offers a free, no-pressure consultation specifically so you can ask every question you have, get honest answers, and decide whether hypnotherapy is right for you — before committing to anything.

There are no silly questions and no pressure. It's just a conversation.


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David A. Gonzalez MS, NCC, BCHP

Board Certified Hypnotherapist